Most men are way more sensitive than they dare to admit. Conditioned to see our sensitivity as weakness, we men shut it down, and turn into fake, manpulative, lying “nice guys”.

“Nice guys” that frequently blow up with temper tantrums and uncontrolled rage, or who beat ourselves up until our dignity is all but lost.

The Forge is our Brotherhood and membership platform, and it offers something quite unusual: A place where your raw sensitivity will be celebrated, while all of the bullshit excuses to enter victimhood consciousness, white knight posturing, self-sabotage or dark manipulation will be exposed. 🤯

See, you have been lied to, Brother. You have been led to believe that your sensitivity will get in the way of your worldly success. That women won’t like it. That it’s an emasculating character flaw.

But sensitivity is a fucking superpower, Brother, and when properly harnessed, it gives you an edge. 🔥

So my desire, as I invite you into The forge, is to show you how to stay open, while engaging fully with the world.

For pulling back from the action in the world is not in the nature of sensitivity.

This is trained behaviour, and it can be untrained once you realize a better way of doing things.

In the Brotherhood of The Forge, you will discover those ways. 🎯 

We live in a world of liars, Brother, and a man who tells the truth is by now a cultural renegade.

For honorable men who feel deeply, this can be its own particular type of hell. With integrity and truth-telling being so important to you, you now know that living a life of integrity – where your thoughts, words and actions are congruent – puts you at great risk for becoming a target.

But we can’t tell you how many beautiful men we see nurture stories of melancholy, grieving for the state of the world, feeling the pain in their hearts, while doing nothing of real significance to change it.

Well, we’re getting sick of it.

We’re getting sick of watching beautiful men like you shut down because you’ve been conditioned to be small and afraid.

So we invite you into something you may have never seen before: A brotherhood for men who feel deeply, yet which is clinically stripped of politically correct bullshit. 👊

The Forge is a community of men that is clinically stripped of masculine posturing or politically correct self-castration.

And if you, like we, agree that the time for fake “nice guys” is over, and that the time to reclaim your personal power is here, then you have come to the right place.

The transformational fires of The Forge await you.

Eivind Figenschau Skjellum
Reclaim your Inner Throne Founder

I made significant progress during my 3-month RYIT program that allowed me to begin to transform relationship with myself, the foundation for ANY fulfillment and service I want to give.

The Forge offers a powerful environment to continue this work, with a group of men who are similarly committed to transformation and service.

The power of this environment cannot be overstated as it allows me to create a powerful and meaningful Vision, and have the highest level of accountability from other men in living it.

If you are serious about stepping into your most powerful, and playful, self, I hope you will come join us.

– Paul O’Brien, Ireland

Your work inside of The Forge will be spread out across three pillars. Together they comprise a complete package of profound power. 

Pillar #1Life Force & Soul

In order to access the fuel required for keeping the fires of the forge burning, you will melt away old internal blocks and open your energy system.

This happens through clearing out your emotional backlog, and opening the flow of your energy channels through deep transformational practices in ritual space.

This is the secret sauce of The Forge, and you may be amazed to discover what can happen inside a Forge Ritual and a conscious connection to the “lower energies”.

Pillar #2Strategy & Tactics

In order for your Forge to burn bright, you will need to focus on your strategic and tactical game. The Forge provides you a barrage of powerful tools that make this easy for you.

By applying them on a daily basis, your inner transformations will produce outer results.

Pillar #3Spirit & Vision

Inside of The Forge, you will be guided towards a renewed relationship with God/Spirit/The Universe.

This connection will give you altitude, from where you will experience light and vision. 

The Mythology

Story of the Black Blade

Starting in the spring of 2021, the men of Reclaim your Inner Throne will receive the shards of a sword from the Black Knight, commanding general of the Order of the Black Blade.

This sword is in need of being reforged, yet all of the forges of the realm have gone out. 

By the end of their initiation, the men will have lit the forges of the Realm of Forgotten Kings, prince Andulin will have ressurected as the returned King, and you will bring the shards of the Black Blade into real life, where the Forge awaits.

This is the backdrop for the work you will be doing in this community over the coming months and years (provided you choose to stay that long, which we all hope you will). You are here to light the Forge, and then reforge the Black Blade, which is a process that may take you years.

Indeed, this is a practice community for life, and you can find a home with this Brotherhood.

The Domains of Life we will work within

As you can see, all of our work within the four life dimensions will happen within a context of Play.

This is where the competitions, seasonal leagues and challenges come in. We will literally compete to be the most dedicated in pursuing our own transformation, and we will have fun doing so!

Your Journey through The Forge

Your Life on Fire Plan

  • Register to the Forge

  • Move through the 3 onboarding Stages called Spark, Flame and Fire to qualify as a Fire Starter (Flame) and Fire Keeper (Fire).

  • Enter into the Crucibles of the Forge, where you will start engaging with friendly competitions, Challenges with accountability systems, the pursuit of strategically established goals etc.

  • Do the Work in the Crucibles of the Forge for as long as you wish, and see yourself rising.

Join The Forge

The Forge is being constructed based on the roadmap above as we speak, and Spark and Flame are already complete.

We’re getting enthusiastic and powerful feedback and see high engagement inside the Brotherhood 🔥.

As a member of this growing Brotherhood, you will engage with Strategic, Tactical and Transformational tools that will equip you to make tremendous shifts in your life in only a short amount of time, as Paul and Olivier are already experiencing (see testimonials).

All in all, you will find here a powerful container for growth, that will support you in what bodes to be another crazy year.

  • Your Journey
  • Completed: Initiation

    RYIT Rewards

    • Increased Clarity in Life
    • Brotherhood
    • Dignity and Power
    • A Foundation for kicking ass
    • Your Mythology reclaimed
  • Onboarding Begins
  • Completed: Spark

    Stage #1 Rewards

    • Tactical Tool: Weekly Compass Reading
    • Access to Weekly Group Coaching Calls
    • Metrics for your Forge work
    • 2 New Conversations
    • The Safe opens
  • Stage #2: Flame

    Stage #2 Rewards

  • Stage #3: Fire

    Stage #3 Rewards

  • Onboarding Complete
  • The Forge is lit

    Completion Reward

  • The Crucibles:
    Reforging the Sword
  • Wielding the Sword

    Completion Reward

  • Claiming the Crown

    Completion Reward

  • Council of Kings

Who should join The Forge?

  • Men who know that they need to keep rising in 2021.

  • Men who need Brotherhood and accountability.

  • Man who are ready to take responsibility for their own growth.

  • Men who want to make personal growth a fun game.

  • Men who want to learn to rest & rejuvenate, without turning to numbing and addiction.

  • Men who want to surround themselves with men who want to change the world.

Who should stay away?

  • Men who prioritize being right over making progress.

  • Men who are looking for a quickfix.

  • Men who are ready to both give to and get from the Brotherhood.

  • Men suffering from a serious psychological condition.

  • Men who don’t want to be early adopters of a community and curriculum that is in the initial stages of creation.

  • In other words, if you’ve been through RYIT, you should be good.

Members of The Forge share their experience and invite you home.

The 3-month Initiation was a powerful wake-up call, and The Forge helps me do the continuous day to day work to keep moving ahead.

Since I joined, I have found alignment where I was previously confused, leading me towards doing things I’ve never been able to do before: Improving my home and relationships, planning my next 3 decades, giving my gifts to the world in new ways etc.

And this is after only a few weeks! So come join us inside The Forge, Brother! I look forward to meeting you.

– Olivier Alibert, France

There are three levels of increasing power inside of The Forge. Let’s review them.

Bronze Level Membership

  • A powerful curriculum of transformation and expansion. (The Curriculum contains three levels: Spark, Flame, Fire)

  • A comprehensive toolkit for strategic, tactical and transformational work. Includes systems for setting and tracking goals, and powerful tools for removing internal blockages.

  • Accountability system. Share your established goals with Brothers in the community using our comprehensive accountability system. Then track them together online.

  • Watch Livestreamed calls. Enjoy livestreamed Fire Circle and Ritual Circle calls (upgrade to be a live participant)

  • Facebook Workplace group to share and grow. A beautiful Brotherhood where you share wins and losses in life.

Silver Level Membership

  • Everything from Bronze. All features from previous levels included.

  • Fire Circles. Powerful bi-weekly group coaching calls with RYIT Founder Eivind F. Skjellum.

  • Pattern Busting. Your patterns of self-sabotage will be tracked and exposed over time, leading to great boosts in self-awareness, power and internal freedom.

Gold Level Membership

  • Everything from Silver & Bronze. All features of prior levels included.

  • Ritual Circles. Experience bi-weekly rituals with RYIT Founder Eivind F. Skjellum & RYIT Women’s team lead Tess van der Putten. Here you will work on energetic expansion in the archetypal sector of the quarter (see below).

  • Energetic Expansion. Start recalibrating your subtle body wiring, so that negative patterns start falling away.

Archetypal Quarters

  • Magician Archetype: January–March. We will work on alchemical practices to expand and harmonize your energy system so as to transform at a deep level.

  • Lover Archetype: April–June. We work on energetic practices related to eros, sexual energy (including kundalini).

  • Warrior Archetype: July–September. We work on powering up, using breath work and physical practices.

  • King Archetype: October–December. We work on building internal harmony, opening us up to vision, wholeness and connection with God.

“How was yesterday’s Lover Archetype ritual with Tess, Brothers?”

The RYIT journey was invaluable in helping me to reframe my perspective on life, including: my self-acceptance and relationships; my authority to act and pursue my passions; and my desire to serve The Forges is supporting the integration of those lessons by reframing my day-to-day behaviours.

Its power lies in its great brotherhood of like-minded men, sharing experience, laughter and learning, reinforced by a potent array of tools for visioning, planning and capturing key insights.

If you are searching for a powerful and whole-hearted community, come join us.

– Paul Feechan, United Kingdom

What is the Investment?


  • Access to Curriculum
  • Access to Transformational Tools
  • Access to Accountability System
  • Access to Community
  • Watch Livestreamed Calls


  • Access to Curriculum
  • Access to Transformational Tools
  • Access to Accountability System
  • Access to Community
  • Watch Livestreamed Calls
  • Attend Fire Circle Calls
  • “Pattern Busting”
  • Attend Ritual Circle Calls
  • Energetic Expansion


  • Access to Curriculum
  • Access to Transformational Tools
  • Access to Accountability System
  • Access to Community
  • Watch Livestreamed Calls
  • Attend Fire Circle Calls
  • “Pattern Busting”

Membership is for minimum 3 months at a time. This makes it possible to participate in your favourite archetypal quarter, if that is how you wish to practice.

Rituals Membership

If you wish to participate only in our powerful transformational rituals, you can register for a rituals membership for $79/month, which is a 20% discount on our normal drop-in prices. Membership is for 3 months minimum to ensure greater harmony in the field.

Register for Forge Rituals

* The Tiers are currently being developed, and Tier #1 will be completed Q1/early Q2. Tier #2 ($79) will be developed once Tier #1 is complete. Before Tier #2 is initiated, all participants will have access to all tools and services inside of The Forge. YOU will choose whether to upgrade to Tier #2 or not – it will not be automatic.

Welcome to The Forge!

This is an exciting new opportunity to join a powerful Brotherhood of men who are on track to reclaiming their personal power.

I am excited to welcome you amongst us.