As a man, there will be a few moments in your life where you will have a choice: Humble yourself and admit that something needs to change. Or recommit to business as usual, and all the suffering associated with it.

What separates a successful man from a man who is lonely, depressed and miserable is what choice he makes in those moments.

When you join the Forge membership, those moments will come soon and they will come often.

See, the Forge is a place of commitment, Truth and brotherhood.

It’s a place where your blind-spots, self-destructive patterns, negative beliefs, and outright lies will be revealed.

It’s a place where average men are scared to go, for they prefer to play the role of having it together over actually thriving.

This is a place for the man who wants to actually have the real thing.

What you will find inside of Forge is something quite unusual: A place where your sensitivity will be celebrated, while all bullshit excuses and victimhood stories will be exposed.

You will not be able to hide inside of Forge. It is a place that will humble you. Challenge you. Sometimes trigger you. And you will need to be a responsible emotional adult.

See, this is for men who want to live the biggest life that they were born to live. And that is not compatible with bullshit. 

That is why this membership is for high level men who can take TRUTH.

If that is you, you are most welcome here.

We live in a world of liars, Brother, and a man who tells the truth is by now a cultural renegade.


We’re getting sick of watching beautiful men like you shut down because you’ve been conditioned to be small and afraid.

So we invite you into something you may have never seen before: A brotherhood for men who feel deeply, yet which is clinically stripped of politically correct bullshit. ?

The Forge is a community of men that is clinically stripped of masculine posturing or politically correct self-castration.

And if you, like we, agree that the time for fake “nice guys” is over, and that the time to reclaim your personal power is here, then you have come to the right place.

The transformational fires of The Forge await you.

Eivind Figenschau Skjellum
Reclaim your Inner Throne Founder

I made significant progress during my 3-month RYIT program that allowed me to begin to transform relationship with myself, the foundation for ANY fulfillment and service I want to give.

The Forge offers a powerful environment to continue this work, with a group of men who are similarly committed to transformation and service.

The power of this environment cannot be overstated as it allows me to create a powerful and meaningful Vision, and have the highest level of accountability from other men in living it.

If you are serious about stepping into your most powerful, and playful, self, I hope you will come join us.

– Paul O’Brien, Ireland

Your work inside of The Forge will be spread out across four pillars. Together they comprise a complete package of profound power. 

Pillar #1Nervous system regulation

You cannot make significant progress in your life if you are stressed and in survival mode. It is imperative that you find your way to a more open experience of life, where you trust your Creator and the divine plan.

In dark times like the ones we are in, this is all the more important.

This work is of a more gentle kind and will be cultivated inside of Sanctum, the biweekly archetypal rituals that are included inside of Forge.

Pillar #2Emotional resilience

Becoming an emotional adult requires having a well regulated nervous system.

When you have the psyche of a boy, you will create dramas, have tantrums, project that others are trying to hurt you when they are trying to support you and so on. This is a phase we all go through.

But inside of the Forge, we are moving towards emotional adulthood, leading you towards deeper thriving with your companion and making you a solid father, friend, ally and businessman.

This work will in large part happen inside of Sanctum, which is included in Forge.

Pillar #3Transformation through Truth

When you join the Forge, you are stepping into a field of powerful truth-telling. This is deeply transformational.

The space you will find here is unlike normal men’s groups where men have typically become too soft with each other. What you will find is deep truth-telling and challenge, while fully honoring your vulnerability.

This is a special kind of balance that we are very proud of.

Pillar #4Tactical & strategic support

Inside of Forge, you will gain access to a whole armory of digital weapons of expansion.

These weapons will become powerful allies for you in your journey towards greatness.

On top of that, we will be with you through the challenges of your life and give you clear ideas of the next steps that will help you the most.


The Mythology

Story of the Black Blade

Starting in the spring of 2021, the men of Reclaim your Inner Throne will receive the shards of a sword from the Black Knight, commanding general of the Order of the Black Blade.

This sword is in need of being reforged, yet all of the forges of the realm have gone out. 

By the end of their initiation, the men will have lit the forges of the Realm of Forgotten Kings, prince Andulin will have ressurected as the returned King, and you will bring the shards of the Black Blade into real life, where the Forge awaits.

This is the backdrop for the work you will be doing in this community over the coming months and years (provided you choose to stay that long, which we all hope you will). You are here to light the Forge, and then reforge the Black Blade, which is a process that may take you years.

Indeed, this is a practice community for life, and you can find a home with this Brotherhood.

The Domains of Life we will work within

As you can see, all of our work within the four life dimensions will happen within a context of Play.

This is where the competitions, seasonal leagues and challenges come in. We will literally compete to be the most dedicated in pursuing our own transformation, and we will have fun doing so!

Your Journey through The Forge

Your Life on Fire Plan

  • Register to the Forge

  • Move through the 3 onboarding Stages called Spark, Flame and Fire to qualify as a Fire Starter (Flame) and Fire Keeper (Fire).

  • Enter into the Crucibles of the Forge, where you will start engaging with friendly competitions, Challenges with accountability systems, the pursuit of strategically established goals etc.

  • Do the Work in the Crucibles of the Forge for as long as you wish, and see yourself rising.

Join The Forge

The Forge is being constructed based on the roadmap above as we speak, and Spark and Flame are already complete.

We’re getting enthusiastic and powerful feedback and see high engagement inside the Brotherhood ?.

As a member of this growing Brotherhood, you will engage with Strategic, Tactical and Transformational tools that will equip you to make tremendous shifts in your life in only a short amount of time, as Paul and Olivier are already experiencing (see testimonials).

All in all, you will find here a powerful container for growth, that will support you in what bodes to be another crazy year.

  • Your Journey
  • Completed: Initiation

    RYIT Rewards

    • Increased Clarity in Life
    • Brotherhood
    • Dignity and Power
    • A Foundation for kicking ass
    • Your Mythology reclaimed
  • Onboarding Begins
  • Completed: Spark

    Stage #1 Rewards

    • Tactical Tool: Weekly Compass Reading
    • Access to Weekly Group Coaching Calls
    • Metrics for your Forge work
    • 2 New Conversations
    • The Archives open
  • Stage #2: Flame

    Stage #2 Rewards

  • Stage #3: Fire

    Stage #3 Rewards

  • Onboarding Complete
  • The Forge is lit

    Completion Reward

  • The Crucibles:
    Reforging the Sword
  • Wielding the Sword

    Completion Reward

  • Claiming the Crown

    Completion Reward

  • Council of Kings

Who should join The Forge?

  • Men who know that they need to keep rising in 2021.

  • Men who need Brotherhood and accountability.

  • Man who are ready to take responsibility for their own growth.

  • Men who want to make personal growth a fun game.

  • Men who want to learn to rest & rejuvenate, without turning to numbing and addiction.

  • Men who want to surround themselves with men who want to change the world.

Who should stay away?

  • Men who prioritize being right over making progress.

  • Men who are looking for a quickfix.

  • Men who are ready to both give to and get from the Brotherhood.

  • Men suffering from a serious psychological condition.

  • Men who don’t want to be early adopters of a community and curriculum that is in the initial stages of creation.

  • In other words, if you’ve been through RYIT, you should be good.

Members of The Forge share their experience and invite you home.

The 3-month Initiation was a powerful wake-up call, and The Forge helps me do the continuous day to day work to keep moving ahead.

Since I joined, I have found alignment where I was previously confused, leading me towards doing things I’ve never been able to do before: Improving my home and relationships, planning my next 3 decades, giving my gifts to the world in new ways etc.

And this is after only a few weeks! So come join us inside The Forge, Brother! I look forward to meeting you.

– Olivier Alibert, France

Archetypal Quarters

  • Magician Archetype: January–March. We will work on alchemical practices to expand and harmonize your energy system so as to transform at a deep level.

  • Lover Archetype: April–June. We work on energetic practices related to eros, sexual energy (including kundalini).

  • Warrior Archetype: July–September. We work on powering up, using breath work and physical practices.

  • King Archetype: October–December. We work on building internal harmony, opening us up to vision, wholeness and connection with God.

“How was yesterday’s Lover Archetype ritual with Tess, Brothers?”

There are three levels of increasing power inside of The Forge. Let’s review them.

Bronze Level Membership

  • A powerful curriculum of transformation and expansion. (The Curriculum contains three levels: Spark, Flame, Fire)

  • A comprehensive toolkit for strategic, tactical and transformational work. Includes systems for setting and tracking goals, and powerful tools for removing internal blockages.

  • Accountability system. Share your established goals with Brothers in the community using our comprehensive accountability system. Then track them together online.

  • Watch Livestreamed calls. Enjoy livestreamed Fire Circle and Ritual Circle calls (upgrade to be a live participant)

  • Facebook Workplace group to share and grow. A beautiful Brotherhood where you share wins and losses in life.

Silver Level Membership

  • Everything from Bronze. All features from previous levels included.

  • Fire Circles. Powerful bi-weekly group coaching calls with RYIT Founder Eivind F. Skjellum.

  • Pattern Busting. Your patterns of self-sabotage will be tracked and exposed over time, leading to great boosts in self-awareness, power and internal freedom.

Gold Level Membership

  • Everything from Silver & Bronze. All features of prior levels included.

  • Ritual Circles. Experience bi-weekly rituals with RYIT Founder Eivind F. Skjellum & RYIT Women’s team lead Tess van der Putten. Here you will work on energetic expansion in the archetypal sector of the quarter (see below).

  • Energetic Expansion. Start recalibrating your subtle body wiring, so that negative patterns start falling away.