Why this Training?
Because it’s become hard being a man. All of the identities, roles, and career paths that used to be safe ways for us to create decent lives are collapsing.
The world is changing. Fast.
And we men, quite honestly, are falling behind. And when we dare be humble and say we’re struggling, other men, in their own insecurity, often mock us, and women often tell us to stop whining and remember our privilege. This is the world that many men live in.
Fortunately, we know of a different world. And we’d like to take 3 months of your life to show it to you.
Reclaim your Inner Throne shows you a world where all of you is needed. Where your authentic self is desired. Where men and women are allies. And where there is hope for you and humanity.
We want to show you this life. We want to show you this world.
And by the end of this training, we hope that you will want that too, and pay it forward. Because we’re not just about changing one man’s life. We’re about creating A World where People thrive.
And it starts with you.
Meet the Team
What can you expect?
Typical experiences for men who go through Reclaim your Inner Throne. (These are based on the experiences of prior participants. Results may vary.)
- Integration of vulnerability and power
- A confrontation with your bullshit in service of your gifts
- Deepened intimacy with yourself and others
- Knowing in your bones you are a man
- Feeling way more, of everything
- Increased capacity to see beauty around you
- Increased sense of Wholeness
- Deepened sense of Purpose
- More self-confidence
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The “hard facts”
- The training lasts for 13 weeks.
- It happens entirely online (we have proven that real journeys of initiation can and indeed do happen in this “virtual medium”)
- All of the contents are presented beautifully in an easy to use course portal.
- Each week includes two live calls. One for teaching and one for coaching. They are both recorded.
- Every week includes inspiring reading, teaching, exercises, group work, triad work, expert interviews, and deep bonding.
- All participants are present on all calls, apart from your triad calls.
Some extra calls may be hosted for US and Asia timezones if they are necessary.
We run a WhatsApp group where men can connect intimately throughout the whole 3-month journey.
The training includes a forum, which typically gets very active.
The leaders are active on the forum and the WhatsApp group, essentially giving you consistent access to high-level coaching and support for three months.
If desired, wives and girlfriends of men on the training will be invited to three sisterhood support calls (lead by a qualified woman in the RYIT-team)
We experience a very high participant engagement throughout our trainings. Dropouts happen, but are rare.
- The team consists of leader Eivind F. Skjellum, assistant course leaders Karl-Otto Sandvik and Richard Arsic, as well as other men that are invited on a per-course basis.
- The training is highly dynamic and will respond to each group’s and individual’s unique needs.
We may be the world’s most committed team! (OK, ok. We admit we can’t prove this, but it may well be true! :-))
- Want to know about time and dates? See our course calendar (you may need to manually turn to the relevant months)
Are you ready to embark on this incredible journey?
Then click the button below to book a free Discovery Call now. The Fellowship departs September 17 2018. (open enrollment the first week)
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Preview of the Training
This is a recording of an introduction to the training that founder Eivind F Skjellum and course leader Karl-Otto Sandvik offered on March 25 2018,
What does it cost?
Early bird prices until July 29 2018
3-month payment plan
- $2007 total ($28 fees)
- All up front. No fees.
6-month payment plan
- $578 first month – $2073 total ($94 fees)
In some cases, we may grant a 9-month payment plan. Reach out to request one.
*Long payment plans require a higher payment in the first month (for a total of 30% of the fees).
Frequently Asked Questions
It’s hard to tell.
In our experience, a lot of men are more capable of facing challenges than they think they are.
Part of the magic of going on a deeply challenging journey like this one is that you get to know that you’re strong enough to do so. That in and of itself is likely to create a feeling of empowerment for you.
But you may not be that committed. You may prefer comfort over truth, TV shows and potato crisps over integrity, beer and porn over cultivating presence. You may be a creature of habit. You may prefer blaming others over claiming responsibility yourself.
If you do, then this training will likely be too challenging for you. This training will peel off your protective layers and expose all of your broken life strategies. Trust us, it will.
And so if you are not yet ready to see the truth of who you are, then we recommend you postpone your journey with us until you are. Until the pain of the current is greater than the fear of change.
It’s ok – take your time. We’ll be here.
No, it doesn’t.
On our training, all coaching and connecting happens in groups.
But over the course of the journey, you will receive much attention on these calls. You will likely experience this as more vulnerable than one-on-one coaching, but also way more transformative.
NB! You will have access to coaching at discounted rates over the course of the journey.
Yes, they are.
Most of our alumni are heterosexual white men, but this is not by design.
You see, we pride ourselves in having a training that is alive and adaptive.
What that means is that every round of our training arises uniquely in response to the men who have come to participate.
In other words, whether you are black and gay or white and heterosexual, we will look beyond the surface to get to know who you truly are (which will always include, but not be limited to, your ethnicity and sexual orientation).
We are committed to ensuring that every man is honored for who he is. Black and gay men are no exception.
There’s always a risk when a man goes on a deep journey of change that the outer circumstances of his life will change.
That said, we have never experienced that a man leaves his wife, family and job on an impulse as a result of taking this training.
We do not believe that deep change is as simple as changing jobs or relationships. Such changes may happen, but generally only if the life you currently live is dramatically out of alignment with who you are.
It may comfort you to know that past participants have healed their relationships and found more joy at work.
Not one man so far has gone on a rampage of dramatic outer changes.
Frankly we cannot answer that question, only you can.
Though the fact that you are looking for the answer could be the first step of your journey.
Most of the men we talk to are unwilling to pay the price it takes to create the change they need. The price that stops them is not a price of money, but the price of losing touch with who they are.
They are afraid.
If you have tried different trainings, men’s groups, therapy and you continue to behave in a dishonest way that violates your core values and dignity, you have to dig deeper. You have to let go of your attachments to your fear and limitations and take a leap of faith.
Here are some questions for you:
- Do you have the guts to surrender into the unknown and let go of your fake identity bullshit?
- Have you suffered enough now?
- Do you want to become a mature man who is dedicated to a life of service?
If you can answer yes to at least two of these questions, we believe this training is for you.
Every teaching call is on Mondays at 8pm CET (CEST in summer), 2pm EST.
Coaching calls alternate between the same time of day on Thursdays and Sundays.
Set aside two hours for each call (we aim at wrapping up after around 100 minutes).
Check the course calendar for more information.
Reclaim your Inner Throne was founded in Norway, and all calls are placed at 8pm in Norway’s time zone (CET).
This does create challenges for some of our participants, as men from the USA will have to get on some of the calls in the middle of their work days, and men from Asia need to get up ridiculously early.
We get that this is not ideal, and yet many men have already chosen that it’s worth it.
We had one man from Seattle call in from his car in the company parking lot on his extended lunch break. Other men from Australia have come on the calls with their sleep barely rubbed out of their eyes. We find that these men get good results from the training, as their commitment is powerful.
We also tend to find that when men realize how powerful this journey is, they clear their calendars and prioritize the journey.
And yet, you may feel that this is a very real obstacle for you. And so rest assured that if you are in the Americas or Asia, we will take good care of you, hosting up to four extra calls at regular intervals if necessary.
That said, all calls are recorded, which mitigates this problem.
Yes, it is.
Though many men that we speak with don’t believe us.
Are you one of those men?
Reclaim your Inner Throne is at the cutting edge of using Internet technology to create deep transformation.
With Zoom, the video conferencing technology that we use, we get to look each other in the eye.
But we don’t have physical contact. And so you won’t be able to wrestle or hug your Brothers. If that is absolutely essential to you, then this may not be the right training for you.
Yet, there is a magic possible online that you are likely not aware of, and that is the magic of realtime integration of the work.
What do we mean?
Well, there’s something about Reclaim your Inner Throne that makes the experience permeate all areas of your life with the feeling of ritual space. We’re proud of that.
When you do a weekend workshop, or even a longer on site training, you go away to some retreat location, have a wonderful experience, and then return home to try and integrate what you experienced. You will likely experience the infamous rubber band effect; the experience of your habits and inner world snapping right back to where it was prior to your training.
With Reclaim your Inner Throne, that is no longer as big of an issue, as the training contains the process of ongoing integration. Since you won’t experience the strong separation between a retreat location and your home when you do RYIT, some magic that you probably haven’t experienced before starts taking place.
On many levels, we believe that this makes Reclaim your Inner Throne more powerful than residential trainings.
If you don’t believe it, check out our testimonials. They speak for themselves.
We get your concern.
Most online trainings cost less than Reclaim your Inner Throne, so why do we charge $2479?
We charge $2479 because our training is unlike any other online trainings out there.
The paradox of RYIT is that men think it’s expensive when they join and cheap when they complete.
Of course, you can’t know that now, because you haven’t joined. But with the experience of deep transformation already behind them, most men find $2479 to be a more than reasonable price.
What makes RYIT so different from other online trainings?
Most of them are pre-packaged journeys where the leaders send you a lot of pre-recorded and pre-written content. In terms of actual live time with the leaders, you may get to hear them (in rare cases see them) once a week to check how you are doing (if that).
Reclaim your Inner Throne is entirely different: We offer a 3-month journey where the core team dedicates their life to you and your transformation for that entire period.
You will have ongoing access to the whole team through our two weekly calls and always-open Fellowship forum.
We think you’ll find that no other online trainings have anywhere near the same dedication in terms of time and energy from the leadership team. It’s this dedication that is the key to your transformation.
We believe that, once you join the journey, you will agree, and that you will end up finding the training cheap.
Do you have a different question?
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Ready to get going?
The Fellowship is departing on September 17 2018 (with open enrollment the first week) and you are welcome to join us for a deeply transformational journey. If you’re ready for real change and are tired of surface polish, then stop deliberating and take a leap of faith.
We’re expecting you.