We are changing!
The new and upgraded Phase #2 will be announced in May and initiated in September.
Please still apply, but information below is no longer complete.
(We will inform you of the exciting changes and opportunities when we speak.)
Why this Training?
Because it’s time for us men to find our way in a rapidly changing world. As a man, this is a confusing time. All of the identities, roles, and career paths that used to be safe ways for us to create decent lives are collapsing.
The world is changing. Fast.
Can you keep up? The truth is this: Most men can’t.
And if you are one of them, you may feel that the ground you stand on is dissolving. This is challenging territory for any man.
And when you dare be real and say you’re struggling, you risk being mocked by men for being “a pussy”. And women may tell you to stop whining and remember your privilege. This is the world that many men live in.
Fortunately, we know of a different world. And we’d like to take 3 months of your life to show it to you.
Reclaim your Inner Throne shows you a world where all of you is needed. Where your authentic self is desired. Where men dare be powerful & open-hearted. Where men and women are allies. And where there is hope for you and humanity.
We want to show you this life. We want to show you this world.
And by the end of this training, we hope that you will want that too, and pay it forward. Because we’re not just about changing one man’s life. We’re about creating A World where People thrive.
And it starts with helping you Make your Life of Meaning, waking up each morning, knowing who you are and where you’re going.
Are you ready for that? Then we have you covered.
Your initiation begins here.
Meet the Team
What can you expect?
Typical experiences for men who go through Reclaim your Inner Throne. (These are based on the experiences of prior participants. Results may vary.)
An increase in your power
- Deepened intimacy with yourself and others
Finally knowing “I am a man, not a boy”
Reclaiming of your heart and emotions
Greater clarity and revenue in your business
An end to any lies and manipulations you have become used to.
More joy and beauty in your life
Much deeper inner peace
- Deepened sense of Purpose
A huge reduction in feelings of shame
Better sex and better relationships
Powerful habits of growth and transformation that will carry you through the rest of your life
Membership to a powerful Brotherhood where men support each other with powerful tools year after year to kick ass in life
Turn Confusion into Clarity
Inspiring Experts #1
The “hard facts”
The training lasts for 13 weeks.
It happens entirely online (we have proven that real journeys of initiation can and indeed do happen in this “virtual medium”)
All of the contents are presented beautifully in an easy to use course portal.
Each week includes two live calls. One for teaching and one for coaching. They are both recorded.
Every week includes inspiring reading, teaching, exercises, group work, triad work, expert interviews, and deep bonding.
All team members and participants are present on all calls, apart from your triad calls.
The training features an online community with support for live videos etc (and no, it’s not a normal Facebook group).
The leaders are active on the community, essentially giving you consistent access to high-level coaching and support for three months.
We experience a very high participant engagement throughout our trainings. Dropouts happen, but are rare.
The team consists of leader Eivind F. Skjellum, course leader Seppi Garrett and assistant leader Ruben Gorseman.
The training is highly dynamic and will respond to your needs.
We may be the world’s most committed team! (OK, ok. We admit we can’t prove this, but it may well be true! :-))
Want to know about time and dates? See our course calendar (Phase #2 has not been fully planned yet. It will start in September.)
Are you ready to embark on this incredible journey into Clarity, Courage & Connection?
Then apply now by clicking the button below.
Tess van der Putten is the manager of our incredible women’s team, who come in to serve the men at crucial parts of the journey.
Inspiring Experts #2
The famous podcast with Charles Eisenstein
In 2016, visionary author Charles Eisenstein interviewed Reclaim your Inner Throne founder Eivind F. Skjellum for his Masculinity: A New Story training.
It was never planned for Eivind to be part of that training, but Charles was so inspired by Eivind’s work that he invited him to be part of it.
The rest is history.
The interview became exceptionally popular and has inspired men ever since. Now it’s your turn to be inspired, and listen in to this conversation on the map of the Realm of forgotten Kings.
Preview of the Training
This is a recording of an introduction to the training that founder Eivind F Skjellum and course leader Karl-Otto Sandvik offered on March 25 2018,
Watch a Celebration Call
Watch the Celebration call for the men of round #9 to see the massive results that you might experience on this training.
Meet Brothers such as this wonderful bunch :)
I leave the training feeling extremely happy and with more energy and enthusiasm than I have ever known. My life is more peaceful, my relationships with women are thriving and my business is booming. What’s happening feels magical.
As a martial arts instructor, I found new layers of authenticity in my teaching, and it lead to me tripling my income. I also saw dramatic improvements in my family life and the way I connect with people in general. Highly recommended!
In the middle of the training, I could feel how an immature part of me was starting to die and a new part was getting born, a man who was a leader and was dedicated to serving the world. This is hands down the most powerful self-development training I’ve ever done.
I have been through and staffed some of the great men’s work trainings available, and Reclaim your Inner Throne is the tip of the spear. If there is greatness in you, it gets exposed on this training.
RYIT was a true rebirth experience for me. For the first time, I am able to embrace and allow my full spectrum of emotions and experiences and be fully in life. Thanks to that, I am now giving myself to the world in new ways, and it has transformed my family and my business.
Uplevel your Life Plan
Apply for Reclaim your Inner Throne
Discover with us how we can best support you and if we’re a good fit.
Register for the Training with link we send you
We guide you on a 13-week Quest which will Uplevel your Life
You face your life with new clarity, courage and energy
What does it cost?
Important Note: Our website has not been fully prepared for the launch of Phase #2 yet. But right now, you will be able to register for the Reclaim your Inner Throne initiation for $979, which is a crazy $2000 discount from the Phase #1 prices.
We can do this because we are changing the structure of the training, allowing for more participants. We hope this makes participation easier in these COVID-19 times
If you’re an established Evolutionary Entrepreneur with a clear vision, you will be invited to partake in our smaller group, where Eivind will mentor you. Prices here are considerably higher. We will determine in our call with you which one is more appropriate.
Early Bird rates are still available, dropping the price further to $749. Act now though, because as we get cracking with preparing the website for Phase #2, that may disappear quickly.
Frequently Asked Questions
It’s hard to tell.
In our experience, a lot of men are more capable of facing challenges than they think they are.
Part of the magic of going on a deeply challenging journey like this one is that you get to know that you’re strong enough to do so. That in and of itself is likely to create a feeling of empowerment for you.
But you may not be that committed. You may prefer comfort over truth, TV shows and potato crisps over integrity, beer and porn over cultivating presence. You may be a creature of habit. You may prefer blaming others over claiming responsibility yourself.
If you do, then this training will likely be too challenging for you. This training will peel off your protective layers and expose all of your broken life strategies. Trust us, it will.
And so if you are not yet ready to see the truth of who you are, then we recommend you postpone your journey with us until you are. Until the pain of the current is greater than the fear of change.
It’s ok – take your time. We’ll be here.
No, it doesn’t.
On our training, all coaching and connecting happens in groups.
But over the course of the journey, you will receive much attention on these calls. You will likely experience this as more vulnerable than one-on-one coaching, but also way more transformative.
NB! You will have access to coaching at discounted rates over the course of the journey.
Yes, they are.
Most – but not all of our alumni are heterosexual white men, but this is not by design.
You see, we pride ourselves in having a training that is alive and adaptive.
What that means is that every round of our training arises uniquely in response to the men who have come to participate.
In other words, whether you are black and gay or white and heterosexual, we will look beyond the surface to get to know who you truly are (which will always include, but not be limited to, your ethnicity and sexual orientation).
We are committed to ensuring that every man is honored for who he is. Black and gay men are no exception.
Tony Fonderson, a man of Cameroonian descent, says “I experienced no racial issues whatsoever. Black men need not be afraid of joining Reclaim your Inner Throne.”
The gay men who have been on our training will also confirm that no discrimination is present. Reach out to be connected to one if you desire.
There’s always a risk when a man goes on a deep journey of change that the outer circumstances of his life will change.
Whatever shifts you choose to make after Reclaim your Inner Throne will however be from a much deeper place inside of you, and you needn’t be afraid that your life is going to fall apart (unless you want it to).
We do not believe that deep change is as simple as changing jobs or relationships. Such changes may happen, but generally only if the life you currently live is dramatically out of alignment with who you are.
It may comfort you to know that past participants have healed their relationships and found more joy at work
Frankly we cannot answer that question, only you can.
Though the fact that you are looking for the answer could be the first step of your journey.
Most of the men we talk to are unwilling to pay the price it takes to create the change they need. The price that stops them is not a price of money, but the price of losing touch with who they are.
They are afraid.
If you have tried different trainings, men’s groups, therapy and you continue to behave in a dishonest way that violates your core values and dignity, you have to dig deeper. You have to let go of your attachments to your fear and limitations and take a leap of faith.
Here are some questions for you:
- Do you have the guts to surrender into the unknown and let go of your fake identity bullshit?
- Have you suffered enough now?
- Do you want to become a mature man who is dedicated to a life of service?
If you can answer yes to at least two of these questions, we believe this training is for you.
Every teaching call is on Mondays at 7pm CET (CEST in summer), 1pm EST.
Coaching calls alternate between the same time of day on Thursdays and Sundays.
Set aside two hours for each call.
Check the course calendar for more information.
Reclaim your Inner Throne was founded in Norway, and all calls are placed at 7pm in Norway’s time zone (Central European Time).
This does create challenges for some of our participants, as men from the USA will have to get on some of the calls in the middle of their work days, and men from Asia need to get up ridiculously early.
We get that this is not ideal, and yet many men have already chosen that it’s worth it.
We had one man from Seattle call in from his car in the company parking lot on his extended lunch break. Other men from Australia have come on the calls with their sleep barely rubbed out of their eyes. We find that these men get good results from the training, as their commitment is powerful.
We also tend to find that when men realize how powerful this journey is, they clear their calendars and prioritize the journey.
And yet, you may feel that this is a very real obstacle for you. And so rest assured that if you are in the Americas or Asia, we will take good care of you, hosting up to four extra calls at regular intervals if necessary.
That said, all calls are recorded, which mitigates this problem.
Yes, it is.
Though many men that we speak with don’t believe us.
Are you one of those men?
Reclaim your Inner Throne is at the cutting edge of using Internet technology to create deep transformation.
With Zoom, the video conferencing technology that we use, we get to look each other in the eye.
But we don’t have physical contact. And so you won’t be able to wrestle or hug your Brothers. If that is absolutely essential to you, then this may not be the right training for you.
Yet, there is a magic possible online that you are likely not aware of, and that is the magic of realtime integration of the work.
What do we mean?
Well, there’s something about Reclaim your Inner Throne that makes the experience permeate all areas of your life with the feeling of ritual space. We’re proud of that.
When you do a weekend workshop, or even a longer on site training, you go away to some retreat location, have a wonderful experience, and then return home to try and integrate what you experienced. You will likely experience the infamous rubber band effect; the experience of your habits and inner world snapping right back to where they were prior to your training.
With Reclaim your Inner Throne, that is no longer as big of an issue, as the training contains the process of ongoing integration. Since you won’t experience the strong separation between a retreat location and your home when you do RYIT, some magic that you probably haven’t experienced before starts taking place.
On many levels, we believe that this makes Reclaim your Inner Throne more powerful than residential trainings.
We get your concern.
Most online trainings cost less than Reclaim your Inner Throne, so why do we charge $2997?
We charge $2997 (our normal undiscounted price) because our training is unlike any other online trainings out there.
The paradox of RYIT is that men think it’s expensive when they join and cheap when they complete.
Of course, you can’t know that now, because you haven’t joined. But with the experience of deep transformation already behind them, most men find $2997 to be a more than reasonable price.
What makes RYIT so different from other online trainings?
Most of them are pre-packaged journeys where the leaders send you a lot of pre-recorded and pre-written content. In terms of actual live time with the leaders, you may get to hear them (in rare cases see them) once a week to check how you are doing (if that).
Reclaim your Inner Throne is entirely different: We offer a 3-month journey where the core team dedicates much of their time to you and your transformation for that entire period.
You will have ongoing access to the whole team through our two weekly calls and always-open community platform, with support for live videos etc.
We think you’ll find that no other online trainings have anywhere near the same dedication in terms of time and energy from the leadership team. It’s this dedication that is the key to your transformation.
We believe that, once you join the journey, you will agree, and that you will end up finding the training cheap.
If you have a different question, contact our helpdesk!
Inspiring Experts #3
Ready to get going?
The Fellowship is departing on March 23, 2020 and you are invited for a deeply transformational journey. If you’re ready for real change and are tired of surface polish, then stop investing in your fear and take a leap of faith.
We’re expecting you.